Showing posts with label travel. Show all posts
Showing posts with label travel. Show all posts

Thursday, March 21, 2019

Derailed

Everything happens for a reason and a purpose, and it serves you. — Tony Robbins

Finally, I was there. I was in the shore-diving capital of the world, Bonaire.

Bonaire is an island in the Leeward Antilles in the Caribbean Sea. Aruba, Bonaire, and Curaçao form the ABC island chain, located less than 100 miles northwest of Venezuela. This trip had been years in the making. Not that it is complicated or expensive to get there; timing was really the issue. Delta flies into and out of Bonaire only on Saturday, so you have to commit to staying the entire week. I finally committed.

The beauty of shore diving is that you can go where you want, when you want, without a guide, and without being on the dive-boat schedule.

Two days into my trip, I sprained my ankle. That’s the treachery of shore diving. It’s not as easy as rolling off the back of the boat. When I got out to the marker on my second dive that day, I heard a faint hissing sound. My companion and I tried to fix my air tank in the water but were unsuccessful, so we headed back to the truck. On the way out, thanks to a slippery rock and a nice-sized wave, I fell and twisted my ankle. 

Of all the adventurous things I do, skydiving, trailblazing, sky yoga, cycling, playing tennis, Orange Theory Fitness, etc., how ironic that I hurt myself scuba diving; I can’t think of anything with less physical impact.  

 I opted not to go to the hospital because international ER visits can get complicated when dealing with insurance companies. Besides that, I knew what they were going to say: RICE (rest, ice, compression, elevate).

What now? My companion couldn’t dive alone, and his dive buddy was down for the count. With that many days left on the island, the alternate plan became clear: he should get his solo diver certification. He fought me on it a little because he didn’t want to leave me alone all day, but I was persistent.

He spent the next three days in class and doing practicals, and I rotated from bed to couch to balcony to restaurant to a beach chair in the shade, and back. I was bothered by my immobility, and had to remind myself that life happens for you, not to you. The trip was still a win. My companion got his solo dive certification and I read three books.

By the way, this incident affected my plans for my next adventure. I’d intended to head to the Grand Canyon next month to do some hiking. Needless to say, that is no longer an option. So I’ve made other plans, and now we are going to Roatan, Honduras.     


Instead of looking at a detour as keeping you from where you were going, perhaps consider it as an opportunity to take a new path. As hard as it is, sometimes you just have to trust where you are being led.


What do you do when unexpected events derail your plans?

Tuesday, October 3, 2017

I want to be Norberto when I grow up...


Seriously, I really want to be just like Norberto when I don't grow up!


Backdrop, it was my birthday, I was in Lisboa (Lisbon in English) Portugal and for my birthday celebration I wanted to experience Portuguese Fado.

Fado is traditional folk music. It includes instruments like guitars and mandolins with one Fadista singing poetic lyrics related to the darker elements of love, death and sadness; on occasion some include humor.

We had the second best seat in the house for the O Faia Fado show. I anxiously anticipated the arrival of the party of table in front of us. In my mind I'd pictured some older arrogant rotund man with his arm candy who'd probably taken an hour to paint on her face just for their evening out. Yes, my thoughts are that vivid; even more so than described here. A couple like that, actually ended up being at the table behind ours 😂. The owner of the best table in the house for the evening, was seated alone. I noticed him when he came in; a genteel man, perfectly put together. 

Our bottle of wine arrived shortly after this distinguished gentlemen was seated. We offered him a glass of our Albariño assuming he didn't order a bottle of wine because he was alone; he politely declined...his wine would be arriving shortly. It was obvious he'd experienced this before because without prompting he said... I ordered a bottle myself, if I drink it, I do, if not oh well. From there we be began to talk ...

Norberto is 78 years young with the spirit of a 21 year old. He is from Argentina but had spent 40+ years living and working in Puerto Rico. He had been to this very same Fado house 20 years before and the same headliner was performing. He arrived earlier that day from Madrid and was heading out on a tour of Portugal on Friday. 

In between performances we talked of travels; well mostly he talked and I was trying to absorb it all. This year alone, he'd conquered Machu Picchu and the Galapagos. He typically travels alone, but he never considers it as such because he always makes friends along the way. I hung on his every word as he told tales of his experiences and shared photos. He was such a fascinating man with an inspiring outlook on life. 

I finally asked, where haven't you been? He answered with ease, Greenland and Mongolia. 

For the last act, Letina Gentil commanded the "stage." I actually smelled her perfume before I laid eyes on her; however, oddly it was not offensive. If I had to compare her to an American artist it would have to be Tina Turner; her presence was really indescribable. Her powerful voice and enormous soul ... the power notes vibrated in my body and when softened, pierced my soul. She had a power move at the end of each of her performances...she'd get very close and face the Fado guitarra and belt out notes that filled the entire space, completely. It was as if she was drawing power from his strumming in to her diaphragm...it was so incredibly moving. I do not speak Portuguese; however, I understood it all, through her passion.

As her set ended, Norberto grabbed her attention and shared his story of having experienced her performance 20 years before. Just then the lights brightened a bit and the staff, followed by the audience began to sing Happy Birthday to me. Our server sat a dessert with a candle down in front of me, followed by another server with glasses of champagne for all three of us. It was the perfect ending.

We chatted with Letina a bit more before she had to go visit with others. Then we continued our conversation with Norberto before they kicked us out.

We insisted Norberto ride back with us. The streets were very alive even though it was well after midnight. He looked back at us and said we shouldn't be going in, we should be out there, pointing to all going on around us. Please remember Norberto is 78 and ready to turn up after midnight...love him. We agreed, but needed to drop shopping bags at our hotel first. By the time we arrived at our hotel either he'd had enough of us or, politely decided maybe we needed to have a little birthday quality time...because he said I will let you two go. I was sad, I didn't want our night with Norberto to end.

Did I mention Norberto was a wiz with a smart phone (iPhone 7, holding out for the X) ...  by the end of the night we'd airdropped photos, exchanged information, and he'd even showed me a trick on WhatsApp.

This was quite possibly one of my best birthdays ever, and I'm certain Norberto was a contributing factor.

Tuesday, August 8, 2017

Why use a Travel Agent...



I know what you're thinking...why use a travel agent, when you can book on the internet yourself? I know because I thought the same thing when approached by a travel agent. My first trip out of the country was 20 years ago, I travel almost every month, I'm a logistics officer (Air Force retired, go Blue), I've been planning family trips and girlfriend getaways for years...I'm a project manager, planning is what I do, and so on. Wrong! I've learned twice as much as I thought I knew in the few months I've officially been a travel professional and still learning more every day. 

If you still need some solid reasons...

Support the little guy
Expedia's CEO's salary was $96.4M in 2016; he couldn't care less about your travel plans. My livelihood will depend on the success of your experience; so you get a different kind of care and quality because my work is a direct reflection on me. I'm not focused on the next big market trend, I'm thinking about details and focused on ensuring you have the trip of a lifetime. Even if you don't choose me, please work with an independent travel agent and support small business. 

Personal relationship
I intend to build a small base of clientele, so I can maintain concierge-level travel planning and experiences. You'll never be just another PAX to me. 

Experience 
Not all travel agents are created equally. I was traveling before traveling was a trend. Five continents, 46 different countries, and 38 American states equals a tremendous amount of travel experience. On top of that, I regularly engage in continuing education opportunities as well as trade shows/seminars to keep abreast of industry information. Leverage my knowledge to enhance your travel adventure.



Time
Protect your most precious commodity, time. While you're working, caring for your family, building your brand, etc. ... I can sweat the details of your travel plans. Let me do the leg work for you while you focus on living your best life. How many times have you and your crew or family talked about going on a trip together, but no one takes the time to plan it, so it never happens? Allow me...

Access
I have access to thousands of vendors only available to travel professionals, ensuring I can beat (or worst case, match) other prices available; yes, even those online. Also, there are services and amenities I can request that you don't even know exist (VIP access, upgraded amenities, special occasion inclusions).

It's Free
Yes FREE; there are no additional fees for using my services. The cost is the same whether you book it yourself or have a travel agent do the work. What do you have to lose? 

A good travel agent is like a good hairstylist/barber; once you find them, you’ll never want to be without them. 
Consider this...your vacation is likely your biggest discretionary expenditure of the year, along with your limited vacation time, so to make sure it’s done right…use a travel agent. 


Now where to next?!?